View Full Version : In Love But Not Being Loved
Bingo
08-30-2007, 03:42 PM
Sometimes life is unfair... You turn to love someone who couldn't love you just the same. But you still continue loving because you hope things will end up fine, but it wouldn't... You CRY, you FEEL BAD, and you end up BROKEN. You want to get even, you want a revenge, you want to hurt him but you can't you just hurt yourself more ....
Sometimes you ask yourself... Does really love exist???
Funny is it to realize that before it all ends,
you'll find yourself thinking that you still want to return to whom your heart belongs!!!
NightGrinder
08-30-2007, 04:05 PM
well thats what love is... sacrifices... sacrifices... sacrifices... :)
without sacrifices... you wouldn't know if you ever loved. Kahit di ka nya mahalin in return, the fact that loved him is enough... dont ever, ever ask for anything in return. :)
active_x
08-30-2007, 04:21 PM
I don't see any point in here but as what mikko said "never ask for anything by return"
and as far as of my concerns, love is blind...
Tubarao
08-30-2007, 06:26 PM
i think if it is true love you should not be made to compromise....
you should not lose what you truly are just because of "love"... if it truly is love, you need to be happy being yourself.. no crying no sadness...
compromises mean settling differences and more differences means two people are less and less compatible...
the more you NEED to compromise, the more it means you two are not meant and it shall mean life will be full of settlements and arguments... hence an unhappy life..
pambong11
08-31-2007, 06:21 AM
well thats what love is... sacrifices... sacrifices... sacrifices... :)
so true..
i believe that love is a plant of slow growth and those
sacrifices would soon bear fruits.
iloveyoutohateme
09-07-2007, 11:40 AM
it seems this someone had a relationship with but somehow..her partner doesnt love her back...
loving someone doesnt guarantee u to be satisfied all the time (all the positive things u can have if u love someone)
u can never be a magician in a relationship (like changing ur partner in an instant or doing things that somehow even his self wont cooperate or somehow he jst wants not to cooperate at all)
it maybe sacrifices but...( too much sacrifices is too risky, id rather give up then to do things jst to make the relationship survive...)
martyrdom (its one way of a suicide)
and lastly,
if ur partner commits a terrible mistake, a very terrible one...some like u really feel bad...dump him, its a bad idea to have him in ur side in the long run, he will developed the thought that "i made a mistake and still she forgive me...hmmm... it jst ok if i would do that same mistake again)
one thing for sure...im a man and i hate to see GIRLS CRYING...
dila_ng_diwata
09-07-2007, 01:13 PM
love....love.....love....
i had experienced " in love but not being loved" a lot of times. Im not in the same boat that most of you are riding now( im gay). But this experiences had made me a better person now and made me face the world head-0n collision. Ive learned that in order for a relationship to work, one should love the other ten folds more. But always leave some for yourself.
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