I never thought...

[Bingo]

Guys please I need your advice... I never thought I'd feel this way... I fall in love with my bestfriend unintentionally, I know he feels the same way too for me, we are just controlling our emotions pero parang pag pinipigil namin lalo nag wawala yung puso namin. We are both in a relationship right now. My best friend is a guy who is 5 years older than me. What should I do??? Iwasan ko na lang ba siya? para di kami pareho masaktan???

[im0stwanted]

for me, you should take the risk. You know your bestfriend even from the start it seem so better if you and your best-f never had a fight before! choose him!... it will be best for you girl!.. yan Lng mssabi ku!

[Tubarao]

whats wrong with people is they consider bf-gf relationships na parang kasal na sila.. the reason why you are bf-gf is to find out if you are compatible for marriage right? but if you are attracted to someone else and you want to fuck the brains out of that person, then by all means do so...

you are there because you can make mistakes.. you dont do shit like that when you get married...

and besides, people who fool around when they get married are the same people who didnot do what they wanted to do when they were not yet married...


there is no formal covenant in the eyes of man nor God in a gf bf relationship.. its between two people who say they are in love with one another..

[ahmdmst]

yes i do agree

[NightGrinder]

i agree sir whip... yur best friend is far more "matimbang" compared to your "ka-relasyon" :)

[sani154ta]

i also agree with you

[deviant]

i know its like being crazy,right?parang you dont have any idea n someday somehow along the way you'll fall head over heels inlove with him..but the hell if you're both in a relationship..i mean,cmon...as whip said it is not something like you're married guys..bf/gf plng yan..if you guys really love each other,then give it a shot..mas mhirap tlga pag pinipigil..baka at the end lalo pa kaung magkaron ng regrets..diba?

[NightGrinder]

yezzz... mas ok na mas maaga... bka mamaya kung kelan both of you are married to different spouses... tska pa kau aariba? :) bad yun.. :)

[Bingo]

Thanks sa time ninyo and sa advice... I'm trying...

[studbunny30]

say something to him...but before you do.. you should think about the following first: a.) tell him, hope for the best and fear for the worst b.) are your feelings for him solid that's worth risking your friendship over? i guess these are the two most important factors to consider. I had the same thing going with my girl best friend, i held back thinking about what i'm risking.. until finally she found somebody na... how i wish i said something before...

[coolass]

The best way to ruining a good friendship is to start a romantic relationship. Choose wisely. aaahe may become your best friend & lover or if it doesnt go right, you might end up without both. Good luck!

[pambong11]

whats wrong with people is they consider bf-gf relationships na parang kasal na sila.. the reason why you are bf-gf is to find out if you are compatible for marriage right? but if you are attracted to someone else and you want to fuck the brains out of that person, then by all means do so...

you are there because you can make mistakes.. you dont do shit like that when you get married...

and besides, people who fool around when they get married are the same people who didnot do what they wanted to do when they were not yet married...


there is no formal covenant in the eyes of man nor God in a gf bf relationship.. its between two people who say they are in love with one another..


it can never be said any better than you just did whip..... :clapping shout:

[blackdude101]

nonsence to my ears. but i have the problems too. need to cummer on a boob. why not try to oooper on a booper

[iloveyoutohateme]

they are all right...specially studbunny..

try to do it now for its fresh pa...may spark pa...

hehehehe...

[Bingo]

thanks guys... I think I'm on cloud nine right now. I talk to my b.f and told him that I fall out of love and he told me he felt it just before I told him, he knew 'bout my feelings towards my bestfriend he he gave way. He wished me goodluck, we remain as friiends till now. I know I hurt him but I would hurt him more if I won't be honest with him. My bestfriend and I are now planning to get married next year. Our parents are so excited they are all inovlve in our plans. Guys thank you so much for your advices wish us luck!!!

[Je]

Whoah! A month to reconsider, poor boyfriend. I like your guts, Bingo. well, goodluck.:smile_me:

[Bingo]

thanks jenny & thanks to all who adviced me thanks whip, I wish my ex would find someone better than me.

[Tubarao]

there was nothing special in what i said bingo... but there is a lot of WRONG things going on in how the present society engages in relationships and how we go about doing it...

so are you single now? are you hot?:naughty::naughty:

[eunald]

choose ur bstfren

[ninabj]

iwasan mo na lang, like what happened to me and my best friend bf

[ninabj]

your bestfriend should be hot

[DL3087]

bingo i experience the same too. im a boy, my besfriend is a babe of course, were both in a relationship. she had 3 yrs with her man, while 2 years with my girl.. then the time comes were both in love wd each other, we shared almost of the time outside and we always make conversations in celfone.. but we both agreed to each other that we may stop that, maybe we realized that, were only in love to each other to pamper ourselves in our grievances to our respective co relatioships. be strong, think first before making hard decisions, making a mistake will hurt you more:smile_me:

[saisero]

follow what you want,,, sometimes you have to take the risk...
... or you might regret it...

[syet_my_azz]

people sometimes confuse love with friendship.......you may think you love your friend right now but you cant really be sure unless you take the risk and go for it.....i had the same experience before mga 20 years ago...i thought i love my bestfriend cause i spent more time with her, enjoyed our date more than mg girl, cant end the day without talking to her and so i thought hey i love the girl and went for it, sadly i did not turn out the way i wanted when we went steady.......i was suddenly clear to me i like her as my bestfriend.....everything went wrong.....but hey i would not have found out if i did not take the risk

[geisenburg]

i agree also