will a liar ever change?

[deviant]

Being lied to by someone you love and felt you could trust is very painful and frustrating. You love your partner, so you find yourself forgiving his/her lies the first time, perhaps the second and third time as well, before you realize you are just involved with a liar. However, because you feel strongly for this person, it is not easy for you to break away, even though you know that is probably what is best for you. You hang on, with hope that things will change and he will not lie to you anymore. You justify staying with him by telling yourself that he is a good person and deep down you know he loves you- and that your relationship is wonderful and perfect- except when he lies.

What you need to ask yourself when this happens is: Do you consider a wonderful relationship one in which your partner lies to you? Is being lied to by a liar your idea of love and respect? When you are emotionally involved with someone, it is not always easy to ask and answer these logical questions. You often will make excuses for a liar, just to make yourself feel better about staying with someone who does not truly respect you. When your partner lies to you, it is because he does not respect you and is not as committed to the relationship as you would like to believe. Of course, there are different kinds of lies- little ones and big ones, but a lie is still a lie, no matter the size or reason for the lie. Look at it like this: if your partner can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about, then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger things that will really matter and damage the relationship.

[NightGrinder]

trust is essential in a relationship... and liars shouldn't deserve commitments. :)

[pambong11]

can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about................................
then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger
things that


most valid:clapping shout::clapping shout:

[deviant]

i guess part yta ng relationship ung ganito..para saken,if the guy i love can easily lie about things,hindi nia ko tlga mahal..

[studbunny30]

Yes, liars do change...i realized it at the expense of losing someone i really love...life's a tough teacher you know...it gives you the test first, then the lesson after...

[NightGrinder]

Cguro if ur young pa madali lang magbago... pero diba? its hard to change once na naging nature mo na yun. It's possible.. yes.. change ur ways for the one you love... pero ganun nga... if you dont even exert any effort para magbago ka para sa taong yun... it just simply means you dont love that person. And to "that person" kung nakikita mong wla nmang pagsisisi or effort sa taong un para magbago...uhmmmmm... its up to you :) hehe

[Tubarao]

i discovered i can tell a lie with a straight face when i was in 5th grade...

since then I have known I can lie convincingly.. I choose people that i lie to and those that I dont lie to..

But I am a liar nonetheless and i dont think i will change nor will there be a disturbing life moment that can change me....


then, thats just me :D

[watson]

since all liar lies....
he/she should be telling lies if he/she says that he/she is gonna change...

so, if i were the liar...
i should say that i wouldn't be able to change... by saying this thing... I should be telling lies

therefore it would make the statement true that a liar can change...

bwahahaha...

[begerd]

yah rite..all people tell lies..even the world leader were tell a lies...so dont trust anyone that want u to trust

[Bingo]

Yes I think everyone lies once in a while, we can't do anything with that, sometimes there are some certain situations we have to tell lies for the sake of saving a relationship or for someone we love , it really depends sometimes lies help, sometimes it hurts.... We have just have to be careful on the people we would TRUST.

[jmslee00]

:peace_350: NO NO NO NO NO NO never change NO NO NO NO:laugh:

[iloveyoutohateme]

if your partner can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about, then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger things that will really matter and damage the relationship.


"LIES WILL ALWAYS BE A LIE"

it made me sad reading this thread...

we have our on individualty dibah...we are very different to others in many ways...

we had our own perceptions,predicaments,wants and etc...

BUT we had minds to think and somehow we know whats best for us...
:peace_350:
we decide wat we think is good...

either u lie or be a true...

MAKING A LIE IS SOMEHOW BLINDFOLDING URSELF TO MAKE A REAL YOU

[Bingo]

very well said iloveyoutohateme:clapping shout:

[valharta]

personally, if you can afford to lie on little things pano pa pag malaki. im not saying i havent lie on my gf but this will test your loyalty and respect sa tao. wag na natin sama yong mahal natin sa buhay. lets focus on our selves, do we really need to lie? what comes out in our mouth and actions state who we are. so be it kung magalit sya or masira yong relationship, what really matters is you trust and love her enough that you tell her the truth... im sure you will gain her respect.

[sunshineacid]

lying is also essential in keeping relationships. ung mga white lies I think are not that harmless.
regarding to us guys nman, it its really part of our nature although im am not proud and satisfied by this argument.

pero un nga lng, tapat tapat lng nman yan>:)

[saisero]

it depends,, pro no comment?

[rukusENT]

we heard this a lot "A liar will always be a liar"

it's hard to believe someone when they lie to you the first time, because you would think that they are lying again. This is a hard a topic to talk about.

[bantz03]

its easy to lie but its hard to change but if u really do it with all your heart not because you love someone you can gain back the trust that was lost but once you have done it there is no point of turning back again kasi pag pumalya ka wala na

[Charlz777]

it depends.... give chance!

[sarcastic]

there is a good lie and a bad lies, un lng un eh, for example he/she lies to save your relationship or he/she lies bcuz he/she do a bad things that you dont want,

but lies save life...