I'm brokenhearted....

[leseclaires21]

Hi!

I’m back from my busy schedule at the hospital where I’m having my duty. Yeah, you read the thread right, I’m broken hearted… I dunno how to react on this situation. Right now I’m down, under emotional pain and anxious. I lost my appetite, and I’m not on the exact mood to have my duty.

I really hate him at this moment. He doesn’t want to talk to me. It started at this friendster thing! Well we decided to give each other a permission to open our friendster accounts so we exchanged our username and passwords. Well I was having my duty that time when he texted me and asked me who was that person at my private photo. He was asking me how did he gain access and who accepted him to view my private photos and his account was deleted at my private photo access. The truth is I really dunno why… to cut the story short, we broke up!

What’s the worst part? He’s my classmate and everybody knew that we broke-up. At this exact moment, I am sentimental/emotional… sounds corny but I’m listening to this song entitled IT MUST HAVE BEEN LOVE and it really tears my heart apart.

It’s so hard to move on at this moment…the song really sympathizes with what I feel… it must have been love, but it’s over now… damn this life! I want to keep myself busy these coming days!

And how unlucky I am, the day after we broke up, I lost my phone under globe network! What a day, what a week, what a month, what a year and WHAT A LIFE!

[pambong11]

that's exactly what you have to do... keep yourself busy.

i know it is easier said than done but....... you just have

to move on as they say, life is queer with its twists and

turns.

borrowing your word, it may sound corny but if you're

meant for each other, he'll be back!!

[danaiah]

all of us experienced that broken heart thing and i believe its GOd says for u to be much stronger and the only thing i can say dont listen to any love song and rule ur mind than heart ..We're pretty girls and all boys wants us...ahihihi!

[Mktrilogy]

geez, well, i hope u still reconsider my offer :) Kidding. Life is like that. if u must feel pain, so be it. be thankful u still feel. some dont, anymore. i think im down too, dont know what am blabbing :)

[Lestat]

geez, well, i hope u still reconsider my offer :) Kidding. Life is like that. if u must feel pain, so be it. be thankful u still feel. some dont, anymore. i think im down too, dont know what am blabbing :)

this is the sort of thing that shimz and opiate would've said. didn't expect it to come from mk. :laugh:

[Mktrilogy]

hehehe, actually i have an offer for our friend :) it will be something here for nyakerz and im excited about it :)

[Mr_Pop!ular]

heheh..another offer.

well ms clair,try to hangout w/your friends to help you ease the pain.

[Google Spider]

this is the sort of thing that shimz and opiate would've said. didn't expect it to come from mk. :laugh:

chismoso lasher aka jobert sucaldito! :biglaugh:

[pambong11]

this is the sort of thing that shimz and opiate would've said. didn't expect it to come from mk.

me too......:laugh_02::laugh_02:

[deviant]

claire,have fun:) keep yourslef busy..and dont ever blame yourself..i mean,when its not meant to be..it just really not meant to be..tama b un..lolz..nwei,i know you're a pretty and smart girl:) you can move on:)

[studbunny30]

Hey, you know what? He's not worth every pain and tear that you shed for him. It's obvious that his love for you was shallow...i mean hey, it's just friendster. Mababaw if you would quote me. Love isn't about a jealous tone like "who's with you? why are you with him?, it's about "hey, that's great, i hope you're having a great time!" Gets? It's about TRUST. Without it i guess it defeats the purpose of being together... You're a young lady, you will meet lots of guys... I know it's hard to move on.. believe me from experience... i held on for 6 years to my ex-girlfriend, i used to wish i could just go back in time just to correct all the bad things i've said and done... i didn't hurt her physically, i hurt her emotionally thru my constant lies...now, she's happy with someone else, and i hoped that she would turn around and go back...she never did..and all hope was lost... until i met this wonderful girl who changed everything! I realized that there was life after my ex.. she gave me back my longing and my desire to live... it took me 6 years to recover and i'm happy now... it does take time to heal, but eventually you will... hang in there... look at me, i've always imagined myself walking down the aisle with the one i've been waiting for, for 6 years.. it NEVER happened, instead i walked down the aisle with the girl who was just around when i was too busy waiting for someone who never showed up... :) In the meantime, spend time with your friends and keep yourself busy... Hang in there ok? ;)

[NightGrinder]

If ur relationship didn't work out w/ just "simple disagreements/misunderstandings"... don't expect that it would last for the worst... :) you'd soon realize... he's not worth the pain :)

[bRaKKuS]

" expect for the worst, and hope for the best " - i always kept this in mind. and think of it as another opportunity. maybe somehow, you're both not meant for each other. I've had tougher days also. And maybe when you get to hear my story, you'll say to yourself - " i'm still lucky after all "

[leseclaires21]

thanks so much for everything... thanks for the comments and opinions... i really apreciate every comments you have... I'm trying to be busy but sometimes it's just hard to do so when I'm inside our quarters, lying on my bed in a room of silence and then I recalled him again and tears flows... but what can I do, it really ended that way, but still I and her mom are texting...

hay sometimes i think like i'm a fool, coz i'm good on gioving advice to other people but look at me I can't even solve my own problems... what an irony...

thanks so much!

[studbunny30]

Hang in there! "This too shall pass..." ;)

[demolay]

surround yourself with friends who care and indulge in worthwhile activities. life continues, have fun and accept suitors at once... that will surely give you a lift.

[iloveyoutohateme]

its all true...

its jst sad in the beginning...frankly speaking ive been there b4...but somehow i can still manage to live my life so good as of this days...the level of understanding and trust of ur bf is too "kitid", is he patient to hear reasons that could make a clear view to his predicaments...? and is he a nurse? oh my God...

Nursing/Nurses should have a great patience...

i cant imagine ur bf...too babaw...

its really good that u break up with him...

daming guys out there...

P.S.

its also correct for a fact that PEOPLE WHO IS GOOD IN GIVING ADVICES AND FUNNY PEOPLE HAD A HARD TIME DEALING WITH THEIR OWN EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS

[coolass]

Thank the busy schedule you have as an intern. That will help you keep your mind of him. Been there, done that. It too will pass.

[seven1970]

just move on dear...... there are lots of fish in the ocean.... your pick girl..

[chiefgo123]

this would be my first post.. hmm keep yourself busy... concentrate on your work... love will just come by you :)

[rukusENT]

it's time to move on.. i know it's hard BUT you have to make the first step! putting 1 foot over.. dont worry! sun comes out after a rain!

[skyfire_high]

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[trixs313]

simple lang yan gurl... give yourself a timeframe.. for example, iiyak mo yan for a week, then after it forgive yourself and accept what happened. face the reality that it's over! done. the end. finish. hayy.... by keeping yourself busy wont do good. why? ur just conditioning yourself.. better yet, iiyak mo muna lahat yan then kailangan tapusin mo yun after a week. then another week for acceptance and forgiving yourself. then the third week gawin mo ma involve sa ibang tao o grupo. like socializing or kung ayaw mo naman eh di go somewhere else, have a vacation kahit sandali lang para makapg isip ka. i can reccommend a good place kung ayaw mo ng magastos at gusto mong malapit lang. hmm.. mga retreat house ayos din yun. may counseling at prayers pa! then after that, love yourself and be happy! moving on is a process but in reality, its your mind that is dictating if you're still in pain or not. i had my shares of it, many times... actually, i just broke up and lost someone right after it. but i told myself that life should go on. we live our lives learning different things everyday. so make it a point that you too will learn something from this relationship you had. its ok being open, its ok to love, but still its also ok to love yourself and secure it. while there's still left of you, rebuild yourself and move on.. i know you can do it. just give yourself a time and you will heal...


take care of yourself always gurl!

God bless...

-trix



oh by the way, if you wanna talk im open. that's if you only want to. :)
0915 6978095 trixs313@hotmail.com <----- friendster add ko yan! ingats!!!