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06-10-2007, 03:37 PM
YOUR SEX DREAMS: WHAT THEY MEAN
Everybody has them, those late-night lust shows that get your sheets in a twist… hehehehe… Your X-rated dreams maybe delicious, disturbing or downright dirty, but one thing’s for sure, waking up from them always leaves you wondering what those torrid thoughts mean…
[b]DIRTY DREAM 1[b]
you’re doing the boss
Rest assured, doing naughty things with the big kahuna doesn’t always denote some latent sexual desire. Even if he is hot, your erotic encounter is not necessarily a tip off that you want to ravish his bod. Dreams starring your boss or a male coworker usually signify that the object of your physical affection has some quality that you really admire and want to develop in yourself, like leadership, confidence, success or power. Analyze your “bedmate” and you’ll probably discover what feature of theirs you’re really after.
Sometimes, the person you’re shagging represents a facet of yourself that you’re unaware of when you’re awake. For instance, if you have been longing extra hours at the office and dirty dreaming about someone who’s made it to where you want to be professionally, it could be a sign that you’re actually on the fast track to meeting those goals but not giving yourself enough credit. You’re getting in bed with this person, meaning you’re putting yourself in their league. It’s your brain’s way of saying “Bravo!”
[b]DIRTY DREAM 2[b]
you’re bedding your best friend’s beau
Chances are, forbidden fantasy makes you feel a wee bit uneasy. If you’re strangely excited, you might be genuinely attracted to your friend’s guy. Obviously, you’re going to have to lust from afar. However, unrequited love for your pal’s paramour isn’t necessarily the underpinning of your visions. If you’re unattached he dream could just be telling you what to look for in a boyfriend. Maybe your friend’s guy is really affectionate or has a hilarious sense of humor. Use these clues to help you assess what’s important to you in a potential mate.
If you’re currently coupled up, you may have mirror issues in your own relationship. Your friend’s man could have qualities you wish your guy had, or their relationship may include some perks you feel you’re missing out on. You might consider taking a good look at your union to see if it’s coming up short in any particular area. But don’t automatically assume this is a cue to critique your guy. Sometimes the people in your dreams are representative of aspects of yourself that you need to work on. Your scandalous scene may be saying you should put more effort in your relationship too.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 3[b]
you’re scorching the sheets with Brad Pitt of (any hunk celebrity)
This sizzling scenario falls into the category of yowza! Material: You don’t know the celeb; in fact, in a funny way, you probably don’t really even think of him as a real person which makes you fiery fling pure carnal mental candy. According to the experts, this far-fetched story line is a curious glimpse at something that’s beyond the boundaries of your normal world – an erotic escape. Plus, it’s a guilt-free fantasy. If you’re attached and dreaming about being bad with this certain celebrity, you can keep a clean conscious because you’re not actually cheating.
Star seducing may also simply fulfill your biological needs. If you haven’t had sex in a while or you’re not satisfied with the sex you’re having, it’s very common to dream of getting it on with a hot Hollywood star, to satisfy your sexual urges, your mind pulls up your file of the perfect fantasy guy – one with no emotional strings attached. And the dreams give you the necessary hormonal release.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 4[b]
you’re kinkily getting it on with your guy
This scenario includes your sweetie, but what you’re doing together isn’t so sweet. A kinky dream can play out in countless way, and each detail could be symbolic. Once common scenario: a (talented) masked man is doing dirty things, making you moan in ways you’ve only seen before in frisky flicks, when lo and behold, you realize the lone ranger is really your regular guy. What it could signify is that you want your boyfriend to seize the reins in your sex life – by initiating nooky more or spending mucho time on creative foreplay. If you envision a wild ride where you’re both equal partners, it could mean you’re curious about mattress acrobatics that you’ve never been tried before. A kinky dream suggests that you want some adventure, spontaneity and friskiness in your sex life – not necessarily the exact thing you did in your dreams but something different from your normal routine.
It is important to pay attention to your emotional reaction to avoid your emotional reaction to a wild REM romp, since it can clue you in to feelings about your bond that you might have been burying in your subconscious. For example, if you dream that you and your guy are going at it in a public place where you risk being caught, or where you actually are on display and it’s making you uncomfortable, it can mean you feel somehow exposed or self-conscious in your relationship. It might be due to a simple matter like you’re dating a guy who’s older or younger than you are and you’re worried about what your friends think. Or it can be a more complicated issue, like you’re lusting after another man and are worried your guy will find out. But if you dream you’re having sex in full view of a crown and you’re loving it, this could mean you want to flaunt your happiness to the whole world.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 5[b]
you’re flying in the sky like Wonder Woman
Okay, so it’s not a sex dream in the sense that you’re getting some, but it does have lusty significance. The euphoric feeling of soaring through the air implies that you’re thoroughly enjoying your sexual desire or freedom. Maybe you’re having the most mind-blowing mattress action or you’re new to the dating scene and having a ball. Flying in a dream is comparable to the high that you get from sex – that wild, slightly out-of-control abandon you feel when you’re reaching the heights of orgasmic ecstasy. But it’d not just the airborne aspect that’s representative of primal passion. Flying dreams are especially sexual if there are other phallic images involved, like you’re riding the spout of a whale and then taking off in flight or zooming up a telephone pole into the sky.
Sometimes a recent exhilarating experience will launch a flight fantasy. You might dream of flying after a memorable encounter with another person. So if you recently met a hot guy and you’re navigating the clouds that night, this could be your mind’s way of telling you that you should se him again. And not just in your dreams.
Everybody has them, those late-night lust shows that get your sheets in a twist… hehehehe… Your X-rated dreams maybe delicious, disturbing or downright dirty, but one thing’s for sure, waking up from them always leaves you wondering what those torrid thoughts mean…
[b]DIRTY DREAM 1[b]
you’re doing the boss
Rest assured, doing naughty things with the big kahuna doesn’t always denote some latent sexual desire. Even if he is hot, your erotic encounter is not necessarily a tip off that you want to ravish his bod. Dreams starring your boss or a male coworker usually signify that the object of your physical affection has some quality that you really admire and want to develop in yourself, like leadership, confidence, success or power. Analyze your “bedmate” and you’ll probably discover what feature of theirs you’re really after.
Sometimes, the person you’re shagging represents a facet of yourself that you’re unaware of when you’re awake. For instance, if you have been longing extra hours at the office and dirty dreaming about someone who’s made it to where you want to be professionally, it could be a sign that you’re actually on the fast track to meeting those goals but not giving yourself enough credit. You’re getting in bed with this person, meaning you’re putting yourself in their league. It’s your brain’s way of saying “Bravo!”
[b]DIRTY DREAM 2[b]
you’re bedding your best friend’s beau
Chances are, forbidden fantasy makes you feel a wee bit uneasy. If you’re strangely excited, you might be genuinely attracted to your friend’s guy. Obviously, you’re going to have to lust from afar. However, unrequited love for your pal’s paramour isn’t necessarily the underpinning of your visions. If you’re unattached he dream could just be telling you what to look for in a boyfriend. Maybe your friend’s guy is really affectionate or has a hilarious sense of humor. Use these clues to help you assess what’s important to you in a potential mate.
If you’re currently coupled up, you may have mirror issues in your own relationship. Your friend’s man could have qualities you wish your guy had, or their relationship may include some perks you feel you’re missing out on. You might consider taking a good look at your union to see if it’s coming up short in any particular area. But don’t automatically assume this is a cue to critique your guy. Sometimes the people in your dreams are representative of aspects of yourself that you need to work on. Your scandalous scene may be saying you should put more effort in your relationship too.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 3[b]
you’re scorching the sheets with Brad Pitt of (any hunk celebrity)
This sizzling scenario falls into the category of yowza! Material: You don’t know the celeb; in fact, in a funny way, you probably don’t really even think of him as a real person which makes you fiery fling pure carnal mental candy. According to the experts, this far-fetched story line is a curious glimpse at something that’s beyond the boundaries of your normal world – an erotic escape. Plus, it’s a guilt-free fantasy. If you’re attached and dreaming about being bad with this certain celebrity, you can keep a clean conscious because you’re not actually cheating.
Star seducing may also simply fulfill your biological needs. If you haven’t had sex in a while or you’re not satisfied with the sex you’re having, it’s very common to dream of getting it on with a hot Hollywood star, to satisfy your sexual urges, your mind pulls up your file of the perfect fantasy guy – one with no emotional strings attached. And the dreams give you the necessary hormonal release.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 4[b]
you’re kinkily getting it on with your guy
This scenario includes your sweetie, but what you’re doing together isn’t so sweet. A kinky dream can play out in countless way, and each detail could be symbolic. Once common scenario: a (talented) masked man is doing dirty things, making you moan in ways you’ve only seen before in frisky flicks, when lo and behold, you realize the lone ranger is really your regular guy. What it could signify is that you want your boyfriend to seize the reins in your sex life – by initiating nooky more or spending mucho time on creative foreplay. If you envision a wild ride where you’re both equal partners, it could mean you’re curious about mattress acrobatics that you’ve never been tried before. A kinky dream suggests that you want some adventure, spontaneity and friskiness in your sex life – not necessarily the exact thing you did in your dreams but something different from your normal routine.
It is important to pay attention to your emotional reaction to avoid your emotional reaction to a wild REM romp, since it can clue you in to feelings about your bond that you might have been burying in your subconscious. For example, if you dream that you and your guy are going at it in a public place where you risk being caught, or where you actually are on display and it’s making you uncomfortable, it can mean you feel somehow exposed or self-conscious in your relationship. It might be due to a simple matter like you’re dating a guy who’s older or younger than you are and you’re worried about what your friends think. Or it can be a more complicated issue, like you’re lusting after another man and are worried your guy will find out. But if you dream you’re having sex in full view of a crown and you’re loving it, this could mean you want to flaunt your happiness to the whole world.
[b]DIRTY DREAM 5[b]
you’re flying in the sky like Wonder Woman
Okay, so it’s not a sex dream in the sense that you’re getting some, but it does have lusty significance. The euphoric feeling of soaring through the air implies that you’re thoroughly enjoying your sexual desire or freedom. Maybe you’re having the most mind-blowing mattress action or you’re new to the dating scene and having a ball. Flying in a dream is comparable to the high that you get from sex – that wild, slightly out-of-control abandon you feel when you’re reaching the heights of orgasmic ecstasy. But it’d not just the airborne aspect that’s representative of primal passion. Flying dreams are especially sexual if there are other phallic images involved, like you’re riding the spout of a whale and then taking off in flight or zooming up a telephone pole into the sky.
Sometimes a recent exhilarating experience will launch a flight fantasy. You might dream of flying after a memorable encounter with another person. So if you recently met a hot guy and you’re navigating the clouds that night, this could be your mind’s way of telling you that you should se him again. And not just in your dreams.