guys,keep this in your mind:)

[deviant]

You aren’t going to be her first, her last, or her only, she loved before, and she’ll be love again. But if she loves u now, what else matters?

She’s not perfect, you’re not either, if she can make you laugh admit it. It’s being human and making mistakes hold on to her,

She’s not going to be thinking of you every moment of the day, but she’ll give you a part of her that she knows you can break… her heart.

So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give.

Smile when she makes you happy because perfect girls don’t exist.

But there’s only one girl who’s perfect for you…

[miss_hana]

awww

nice one shi.

[rock8th]

tnx for da tip..

[dicwinters]

same as we guys... we too aren't perfect and we do also give them the part that they could easily break...

[nagumo]

i did your advice, but shes the one who break my heart T_T

[deviant]

but hey..we dont usually break someone's heart...thats the reason why we always end up crying:(

[Mktrilogy]

So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give.


errhm does the the phrase "dont analyze" means u dont do anal or just plain analytical manner?

:laugh:

[Nate115_SCZ]

but my heart was broken by a woman that knew I loved her with all my heart and I gave my heart and she broke it so what do I do???:confused: :cry_2: :cry_2: :cry_2: :love:

[deviant]

errhm does the the phrase "dont analyze" means u dont do anal or just plain analytical manner?




ehem..this is the realization of the day..lol..mk:) can mean both...hahahahha

[spyder0108]

that's quite true

[prince05]

nice post po.....

[slayer0922]

nice tip madam...ill keep it in my mind...

[aoshi62]

Thanks.. mrs. shimz.. Hope that Guy know this....

[pambong11]

'tis a two way traffic really....

he doesn't always break her heart, sometimes she also breaks his.


we dont usually break someone's heart...thats the reason why we always end up crying:(


we also cry but we don't show it, surely it's not a sign

that we are not heart-broken. by our lonesome, that's

when we shed tears!!

[ModtaX]

love is really a complicated thing after all! ._.

[CATwoman]

that's nice.....

[merlin]

well thats life...u win some and u lose some...

[boknoy_ph]

same reason why i married my wife :P

[scorptim]

Well, im not sure bout the hurting part, but as far as change and analyze...I believe women do that more often than guys...

[coolass]

As a female, I would say its usually the guys who break women's hearts. I thikn women should never give 100% in a relationship Thats just my opinion

[Maldito_01]

that was nice ma'am... but i think women should also remember those things..

[studbunny30]

well guys... better open your eyes to the true value of your woman... before someone else does...

[pambong11]

I thikn women should never give 100% in a relationship

if by that you mean we leave some for ourselves, i agree 101%.

[deviant]

kaya lng sometimes diba we cant help it,diba?we fall in love..tpos we fall soooooo deeply inlove..khit anong gawin mo,,u give 100% kasi mahal mo tlga ung tao:D

[pambong11]

sometimes diba we cant help it


.... but we have to. a reality we can't avoid. besides, that "some"

isn't that much, 6% 8%? otherwise, we should stop crying if

we give it all and later leaves us for somebody else.

sometimes, there are lessons we have to learn the hard way.

[Tubarao]

here is a couple of tests for guys to keep in mind...
1. give your girl the cheapest engagement ring possible... if she truly loves you, the ring is the symbol and not its value.. see if she gets offended or even a little bit annoyed.
2. even if you can afford that 200 dollar purse, use it for your own hobbies... a girl who truly loves you will respect what will make you happy and will see you through it.
3. expect that your girl will need emotional dependence from you... but see if you can expect what you really need (you boys know what i mean)from your girl without her getting annoyed...
4. see if you can be your own man.. do what you want to do and what you need to do.. for your family... the way you want it done... and see if she gets irritated or annoyed...


oh and always remember, a girl will always have excuses for all these... to make her seem she is worth a 3 carat diamond ring, to make you feel bad for not getting her the purse, to get what she wants from you emotionally but deny you what you want with a fake headache, and lastly she will demand equality and that you take responsibility even if it is already what you are doing...

there will always be excuses... a girl who truly loves and cares for you has none...

[jackmaster]

well we all cry from time 2 time. both genders tend to break each others heart. its just d a matter of reason. Kung fallen out of love naman ung isa why not tell d other, dats reasonable. kc both will suffer din naman. aken lang dont fool around kung ur inlove. it happens. well jealousy happens 2, minsan tama minsan suspetcha lang. maybe one should not jump into conclusion agad. pero syempre set ur priority straight. loveone muna bago barkada. be open to one another, but be carefull of wat u say din. hehehe. bka self incriminating din eh.

[lanusb]

always be the first i saw...and they remember u for life

[desolator013]

ganda ng tip ty

[chevylover]

I guess this goes to men too. Women do cheat.

[habagat]

nice one. i wonder, that's simple but very difficult to really put into heart

[coolass]

I got this good tip from a friend of mine...
When we fall in love, we always start from 100% then may mga subtractions day by day we find things not so amusing in our man. A guy friend told me that it would be best to start from lets say,50% then as the days & years go by, you get to know that person better & better & thats when you get to a 90%, never a 100. Keep that 10% so that when the relationship does not work, that 10% will be the strength to let you get by without him

[Bingo]

Go on with your life... Enjoy it, meet new girls, maybe you're not really meant for each other. If you're worth her love she'll be the one to come back, if she realizes that YOUR LOVE COMPLETES HER. GOODLUCK

[im0stwanted]

huhuhuh... im a sorry!
..

[coolass]

You can never love someone when you do not even have any self respect. A person who thinks himself worthless will soon be worthless in a relationship. He will never have anything to offer other than his tears & resentments. But a person with self worth knows when to love & when to draw the line.

[kaederukawa2k2k]

hehe.. nice shot!... you bet it.. however .." there things.. whch are perfect if we understand what really means to it" ... albert einstein

[kaederukawa2k2k]

haha..." there are things... hehe...^^..

[intsok]

I think everything applies on both genders... it should be fair and that's it!!!

[ykram]

very well said

[mitch08]

thats noted...

[malibog23]

yeah, girls are supposed to be loved and be taken cared of...but it should the same for the guys...ganun rin dapat ang mga girls....amen?

[thong1003]

i let her go and now.. im sad.. =( maybe im guilty about it... what can i do?.. i cant feel any magic for her ryt now.. all i can say is i fell out of love.. most of my frends told me that its the ryt thing to do.. but what about her.. can she make it?.. i dont think so.. coz im her everything.. the prob is her love for me before are the same.. and still her love is still the same but my love was a little by little saying goodbye to her...

[pinoyuppies]

yes it happens to everyone, especially when you are on a brink of choosing between 2 lovers, you will always feel that for some reason you are letting go of the wrong person

[iloveyoutohateme]

nice one...:laugh:

:i love nyakerz1:

[coolass]

Sometimes the act of letting go may be the best decision you can make for him or her. Your love has waned so what's the point of going on? Right now, when the hurt is fresh & the tears are still shedding, you are the biggest monster in her life. But once it seeps in & she has accepted it already, she will understand. Time is a crucial element to letting go.

[eaglor_satano]

the posts is also for girls out there...

[omanko]

ahhh... so true

[wapbytez]

Well For Me I Culd Probably say "ALL IN LOVE IS FAIR" In Both Ways.The More You HURT The More LOVE.So ENJOY Coz Life Is Too SHORT To Waste On Worries....

[dila_ng_diwata]

these goes to both sexes..... Cherish whatever relationship you have right now cause you are lucky enough to experience a normal relationship with its ups and downs.
In my case, its always a one way road leading to a dead end with me being the sole casualty.
Be thankful of what you had......
Be grateful of what you are having and.....
Take care of what you are going to have!!!

[DB_DancingBunny]

nice thread... loves the healthy ocnversations...
Well, for me... respect, trust, understanding and open communications are the essence of a good relationship... :shoot3:

[totoy]

one word , compromise . If im not happy and shes not happy then all is ok

[Tubarao]

one word , compromise . If im not happy and shes not happy then all is ok

if this is the case, id rather be single and happy.. compromise is the last thing needed in a marriage (lesser compromise means more compatibility).. how could people allow the both of themselves in a situation where they are both unhappy? that is like hell on earth..

[dila_ng_diwata]

they say that for a relationship to work......one should love greater than the other.....and in most cases , it the women who does. I do not know if its true??????

quote frm Tubarao:
"how could people allow the both of themselves in a situation where they are both unhappy? that is like hell on earth.."

this is what you call... unconditional love...... and it does happens.

[Tubarao]

im sorry but i beg to disagree... it is not love.. conditional or unconditional if both are unhappy... if one is miserable, and he or she allows it to happen, it is selfishness, if both are miserable, love does not exist.. love makes a person happy, if both are not, how can it be called love??

society has brainwashed us too much.

[eunald]

it helps... tnx for da post

[Acesx31]

One will always love more than the other. One will always give more attention than the other. this doesn't mean that one (less affectionate) doesn't love the other, it only means that this is how he/she shows affection.

I don't believe that guys should not analyze girls. since if we don't analyze how will we understand them?

[deviant]

i guess it must be felt..no questions asked..love is a two way street and we all know that it takes two to tango:D (parang its doesnt make sense..)

[j01111]

Great sayings there...

[thomas187]

nice tip's, ;)

[nielrivera]

:i love nyakerz1:

[xtina03]

i know it would sound absurd...but i met girls who really broke men's heart...i guess some of the quotations are one-sided....or should i say very relative....

[mugen]

nice point, but why its the boys who always have to give in? i mean, both of the them should meet half way right? just wondering hehe

[rsm123]

speaking from experience, ei? :)

[rsm123]

tnx for da tip

[freeflow]

touchie............

[zeus17]

nice sentiment,,bbut not all people are the same..nor have the same perspectives as you..IMHO lng

[mrnyakerz]

nice thought :)